Sincere Love

I am not commanding you, but I want to test the sincerity of your love by comparing it with the earnestness of others. For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sake He became poor, so that you through His poverty might become rich.

2 Corinthians 8:8-9

REFLECTION

If you could find the perfect litmus test for sincere love, what would it be?  

Several years ago, a young woman took a trip to California. After a couple of days of hiking, she and her friend—a man she was traveling with—set off to see the sights in San Francisco.

They found a place to park the rental car and went exploring. Several hours later, when they returned, they discovered the car windows had been broken, and all the young woman’s expensive hiking gear had been stolen.

Without a second’s hesitation, her friend got on his phone and made the necessary calls to report the break‑in. While the young woman spoke with the police, he stood nearby. Knowing exactly what equipment she had lost, he immediately searched for, ordered, and paid for replacements for everything that had been taken.

When the young woman retells this story, she says, “That is when I first realized that he loved me.”

What she experienced reflects the kind of love Jesus describes in Luke 10, where we are told that the greatest commandment is: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind”; and, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Paul, speaking to the Corinthians, tells them that he wants to test the sincerity of their love. Yet he is careful to say, “I am not commanding you.” Love cannot be genuine if it is forced or compelled. Nor does using gifts to manipulate others produce sincere love. True love pours itself out in tangible ways—often through giving: giving of ourselves, our time, our attention, and our resources. Love is more than good intentions or a willingness to help.

Love takes action.

Jesus is the perfect example of love in action. It is hard for us to fully grasp what Jesus gave up. The very Son of God, who was with the Father from the beginning, lived in the splendor and glory of heaven. The riches that were His before He became human make all the riches of earth seem minuscule by comparison.

Yet, because of His grace, He chose to become poor, taking on human flesh. Why? For our sake. He was willing to take our place and die a criminal’s death so that we could share in His eternal, heavenly wealth and become holy sons and daughters of God. He became poor so that through His poverty, we might become rich.

What will your response be to His extravagant love? Who might God be calling you to love today—not just in words, but through a tangible act of generosity, time, or attention?

 

PRAYER

Lord, You have shown Your love to me so lavishly. Why would You become poor so that I might share in Your riches? It is more than I can fully take in.

I pray, Lord, that I will joyfully show sincere love to You in response to all You have done for me. May Your love pour out of my heart into the lives of those around me in tangible ways, all the days of my life - starting today.